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The Take and Give Experience
by Laura Curll

Everyone is familiar with the premise of "give and take". It is commonly used to describe the dual role we play in a variety of relationships in our lives. Whether it is in the workplace, home, or other environment where responsibility is carried, there exists some level of human expectation that as we reach out to others, there is also an awareness of something to be gained. The balance may very well lie in how much is given vs. taken, and what makes that balance feasible.

From a spiritual standpoint, I've always thought of the "give and take" in reverse, as "take and give". It started in my childhood, reading Scripture and developing a personal relationship with God. Almost instinctually, as I absorbed the Gospel message, I would feel compelled to share the Good News of salvation through Jesus Christ with others. From the beginning, it seemed as natural as receiving a beautifully wrapped present on my birthday or underneath the Christmas tree. Upon opening, I would admire the gift and feel very blessed and grateful to receive it, but it was in sharing what the gift was with others that made it truly special. I wanted everyone around me to have that same take and give experience with their faith as I did, and I still do very much so.

When it comes to the Church, there exists an optimum opportunity to take and give as well. Attending Mass, hearing the readings and homilies, engaging in prayer, and receiving life sustenance in the Eucharist, I have developed an appreciation for all that can be taken in from this extraordinary experience. By participating in the liturgy through singing in the choir, reading from the lectionary, and in other supportive roles, I've also gained the perspective of giving something back to Christ and His people in this setting. I look forward to continue giving to family, friends and my brothers and sisters in the broader community when the Mass is over and the parish doors close behind me. To go forth into the world and share the Eternal Gift with others is what makes it truly special.